If you have ever been embarrassed during a sexual hookup, there are several things that you can do, but it depends on the specifics of the incident and situation. First, if something happens during sexual contact, there is no need to take it that seriously. Use humor. Laugh about it to break the silence. You could apologize to show that you are sorry and that you care.

If you reach a climax before you partner, instead of being embarrassed, just reboot and try again to please your partner. You could also ask your partner what you should do for their full sexual satisfaction. When all else fails, laughter is the key.

When you are watching the movies, sex looks so smooth and almost perfect. In real life, though, there can be instances where it is awkward and can be quite embarrassing to one or other of the participants. Sometimes, the embarrassment almost cannot be avoided. Fortunately, the participants can do things to rectify the situation during a casual hookup. It is not the end of life nor is it something that you have to carry around with you for your whole life. At some point in life, you will experience an awkward casual hookup. It could be the worst sex you have ever had. It could be a weird kiss or something that makes you want to cringe.

One of the embarrassing things that can happen during a sexual encounter with someone is making or hearing unusual noises coming from either of you. Don't pretend that this is not happening because people make all kinds of noises during sex. Your body can sweat and with the close contact, it can make 'slurpy and whooshy' sounds, which is quite normal. Some people might be mortified and embarrassed, but just laugh it off. Have a sense of humor about it. Smile and probably say something like "OMG, that was embarrassing, wasn't it?" And then listen to how the other person reacts to what you said.

If the person appears to be embarrassed, then you say, "Don't worry about it, I enjoyed every minute of it and I guess we both sweat a lot. That's all. At least, it didn't wake up the neighbors!" Make sure you smile when saying these things. It is a good chance that the other person will laugh it off too. This may even draw you both closer. Next time, you could bring a large towel and turn on the A/C or fan to cool down your bodies.

This may not have happened to you, but a fall off the bed moment could be one of the most embarrassing things during a casual hookup. You may even have hit your end during the fall. The same thing is true here. Apply humor to the situation and get a good laugh. Of course, you are going to acknowledge what just happened, but don't dwell on it. Find out if the person who fell is hurt or not and then let the laughter out - loud. This is part of the fun of hooking up - not taking everything so seriously. Don't make it such a big deal, if it isn't.

If you are hooking up with someone and you are both kissing and then you taste something salty like blood, and you realize that it was blood, it should be cause for concern. However, if one of you bit the other on the tongue, you should chalk it up as an accident and apologize right away. It is going to be awkward moving forward, but an apology could be the trick. Of course, the person may not want to kiss you right away again. As long as you show that you care, the other person may warm up in no time. You won't be the first person that this happens to. You should talk about how you can make sure that this doesn't happen the next time around. Remember that life is a constant learning experience and some situations shouldn't be taken that seriously.

Another major embarrassment is having an orgasm too early into the sexual encounter during a casual hookup. Some women don't have an orgasm at all and may not be happy about the whole thing. Have you ever had sex with someone and just as you are enjoying the steamy affair, you hear the person panting, only to find out that they had cum already? You are laying there wondering what just happened and left hanging. It can be embarrassing if you are the guy that just had the orgasm and the woman is not yet satisfied. What do you do then? It is OK to apologize and find out what you can do to make the situation better. If you leave her hanging like that without a solution, you are not going to hear the end of it. If you have to use your fingers, mouth or sex toy to make it happen, by all means you should quickly suggest this and start acting right away. If you wait too long, she may lose interest. To make it less embarrassing, you could say something like this "Baby, it was so enjoyable, I got carried away. You are one good lay and I just cannot get enough of you." She is going to be thrilled that she makes you satisfied and open to the idea of you making up for it. Make sure that your apology is sincere and make every effort to recapture the moment for her sake. It is really not such a big deal.

When there is an embarrassing moment during a casual hookup, you have to be reminded that this is someone you may never see again and if not, you should still not put any pressure on yourself. Incorporate ways that you can fix the situation. If you have to watch some porn to let the moment subside, then that is what you would do. If you have to exercise your skills as a dancer and perform for him or her, by all means be as creative as you can be to change the vibe in the room. Ask your partner what they would like you to do to them. Find out what some of their fantasies are and play it out with them as long as it is reasonable and something you are comfortable with.

In some instances, if you are a guy, it might be difficult to get a hard on when having a casual hookup with a stranger. In that case, if you have to masturbate and get it up, then that is what you should do. Remember that your body has a mind of its own. There are different things that could cause your manhood not to want to behave. While this can be embarrassing, it can be fixed. There is a solution. Give your dick a hand or let the woman use her hand. Use sex toys, if you have to. Go into some heavy foreplay. Find out the things that please each other. Try having sex in different places, moving from room to room - in order to make it more heated and interesting. Apply your bedroom skills in more ways than one.

Before you enter into the sexual part of a casual hookup, be sure to discuss safe sex. You don't want to go into an embarrassing situation where one or other of you feels threatened by STDs and don't want to talk about it, even though, this is an important topic to get into prior to having sex. This shouldn't be an embarrassing topic initially. It should be a mandatory topic. Always have your condoms ready before pulling up on each other. If you don't have a condom, you are going to find yourself in that embarrassing situation. So, ask for some time to go to the corner store or local store to buy condoms. It is going to be worth it all in the long run. If he or she likes you a lot, then you can bet that they will wait until you get back. Take that deep breath and hold on to all that passion.

In an embarrassing situation during a casual hookup, do not be so hard on yourself. It is not going to do you or anyone any good. It happens to the best of us. Lighten up and your attitude will rub off on the other person. Everything does not have to be taken that seriously and don't blame yourself or the other person for anything that happens. Just deal with the issue on hand as best as you can.

There are some situations that warrant more drastic actions. If things are getting really, really weird and you find yourself in an uncomfortable situation; you may have to make some type of excuse to get out of the situation. Drum up any excuse you can think of on the spot and get out of there. You could let the person know that your friend text you that she needs a ride to go somewhere important and you have to go get her ASAP. Yes, you may have to lie, but as long as you are not comfortable in the situation, then that is what you have to do.

Try to figure out what makes you so embarrassed about the situation during the hookup. It could be that something similar happened to you in the past and you did not deal with it. This is not fair to the other person to make a judgment from what happened in your past. It is possible that you have to identify the trigger right away and deal with it later or remove yourself from the situation until you have resolved your personal issues.

If you find yourself feeling embarrassed during a casual hookup and you are going to see the person again, make sure you talk about this with friends, asking how you should deal with it. Call one or two of your friends and get different opinions. You don't have to share all of the details, but enough to get the best advice and recommendations. Make sure that you are talking to close friends about the awkwardness of the hookup because of course; you don't want to have this happen again. This is no time to feel ashamed because your friends will understand. Never feel that you are obligated to let anyone know. You can keep it a secret and try to fix the problem on your own. But this will only put a lot of stress on you. If you act like it didn't happen, this is even worst. At least, it will take the weight from your shoulders and you won't have to deal with it alone. This could make a good brunch story.

Again, humor is the one thing that can break the ice when an embarrassing moment happens during a casual hookup. Crack a joke about the specific incident. Think of something right on the spot to make both of you laugh your hearts out. Joke about it like it was no big deal. It can lighten the situation and put everything back on track as if nothing happened. Your sense of humor will play a major role in having the best hookup ever.

Honesty also goes a long way. Be honest about your feelings without getting too mushy and sensitive. Talk about how the situation made you feel and see how you can both fix it right there and then. It is that simple. You can work it out if it comes all out in the open. But, it can fester, if you keep it in and then the situation can turn really awkward. Honesty is the best policy in every situation, if you have a desire for a better outcome.

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